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Janene Ternes,
Director
Prayer in
Motion, LLC
351 Eastlook
Drive
Saline, MI
48176
PH: (734)
429-7754
Email:
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NEWSLETTERS 2010
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Fall/Winter 2010
Greetings!
Happy New Year! It hardly seems possible
that 4 months have gone by since my last
newsletter. I have been living life in the
fast lane since then. Because my life has
been so jam-packed, this is a little longer
newsletter than usual but make sure to read
to the end and hear all the news ...
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Summer Ends and Fall Begins
On my
birthday in August I presented at
Opportunities in the Sun, a day of
catechist sessions held at St. Joseph
Shrine in Brooklyn. My enrichment
session was held outdoors and we were
blessed with gorgeous weather after
enduring some intense heat and
humidity. It was especially fun because
my sister Judy was visiting from Georgia
and attended my program. From there we
went off to celebrate with my other
siblings, their spouses, and two
generations of nieces and nephews, a
wonderful blend of business and pleasure
all in a day!
In early September I was asked to
facilitate a staff retreat at Holy
Trinity Student Parish in Ypsilanti.
Their entire staff, a
mix of clergy, professional laity and
clerical personnel all participated. It
was a precious time of prayer, sharing
and growing in community. In true
Catholic style we ended with Mass and a
meal!
At the end of September I was invited to
present at a Seniors' Group gathering at
St. Aloysius Parish in Detroit. I knew
when I arrived that this was a very
special place. I was greeted by a
variety of seniors, including Al, the
man on the right below. Each senior was
anxious to show me the outreach area
they volunteered in - everything from
the free morning coffee shop for the
homeless to the group that makes jar
candles out
of
old Easter candles donated by churches.
The seniors themselves were a diverse
mix of people of means as well as the
homeless, yet they interacted easily.
While my program was well received and I
witnessed the Spirit at work in many of
the seniors, I believe I was the one
most changed by the whole encounter. As
Al waved and watched me to my car at the
end, he pointed to a young man on the
street and said, "That's Kenny, he lives
in a cardboard box."
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October Happenings
I started out the month at Conor O'Neill's,
an English pub in downtown Ann Arbor
addressing a group of young adults attending
Theology on Tap. My talk
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on Spirituality in 5 Minutes,
finding ways to work God into our busy
days. I couldn't help but recognize myself
in the harried young people in front of me
wrapped up in career and family, realizing
that the very words I was speaking, I so
much needed to hear and heed. Funny how God
works like that so often in my life!
Once again I had the opportunity to work
with more than 100 K-5th graders at St.
Gerard in Lansing as I participated in their
Kids Mission. This year I w  ent
for two nights, the first was on the theme
of Discipleship - Would you be a friend
of Jesus? and the second centered
around Mary, The greatest of Jesus'
disciples. Using music and movement
our prayer embodied what it meant to follow
Christ. Between the energy of the children
and the long drive two nights in a row,
needless to say, I slept well!
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November and Beyond
My day
retreats are always special for me
because the extended time together
promotes a wonderful sharing and bonding
between the participants. I
was blessed to be invited to return to
Christ Church Spirituality Center in
Grosse Pointe Farms to facilitate a
retreat on Embracing Change. I
knew the Spirit was at work in a deep
way by the hurts and failings that
people shared. These are truly holy
moments where I can only sit in silent
thanks that God allows me to share in
His healing work.
The week before Thanksgiving I went to
Sacred Heart in Grosse Ille to speak at
a Harvest Tea. Much like an Advent Tea,
women sponsor a table, bring
 their
fine china and dine on fancy desserts
and tea. The theme however, was
gratitude. The beautiful
candle-lit gathering space of the church
was filled with wonderful women. It was
truly a joyful event of recognizing and
celebrating our many God-given gifts.
Two days
after the Harvest Tea I got up at 4:30 am to
be at St. Martin Episcopal Church in Detroit
to lead a morning of reflection,
Nourishing Your Soul. This tiny total
ministry church where there is no paid staff
and members provide all services on
a
volunteer basis, is more like family than
church. On the morning of the retreat the
members arrived with crock pots and baked
goods in hand, set up the chairs, made the
coffee and then settled in to experience
what the day would hold. There was a
genuine interest and caring for each and
every person there that was precious to
behold. In the photo they leave their
burdens at the foot of the cross.
My Advent Retreat day at Weber Center was a
lovely time of preparation for Christmas for
everyone, including me! I so look forward
to these
 quiet
times in the busy holiday season. Many of
the people who attended brought either a
friend or relative with them which made for
a wonderfully loving dynamic of sharing.
One woman had just unexpectedly lost her 24
year old son and two sisters had just buried
their father. It was precious to see how
they ministered to each other. Here we
gather around the creche as we anticipate
Christ's birth.
Advent wouldn't be complete without my angel
adventures, choreographing and teaching
dances to the
angels
in the St. Francis nativity procession. We
had our usual complement of thirty 5-6 year
olds and twenty 7-10 year olds that heralded
in the birth of Christ. There were only a
few costume crises and many Kodak moments!
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On a Personal Note ...
My orthodontic treatment has been
progressing nicely and I am anxiously
awaiting the next phase of treatment, jaw
surgery coming up this Tu  esday,
January 4th. If all goes well I will be at
U of M Hospital over night and then
discharged to be cared for at home. I must
have someone with me 24 X 7 for the first
week and am very grateful for my sister Jan
using her precious vacation time to be with
me through Saturday and then my
mother-in-law coming for the remainder of
the time. The doctor tells me my jaw will
be wired or rubber banded shut for 4-6 weeks
but I am hopeful I'll get time off for good
behavior and shorten that! In the meantime
I'm reading recipes for smoothies and soups,
dusting off the blender and gathering a
variety of foods, utensils and ice packs to
help me through the time. I will begin my
4-6 week medical leave on Tuesday but am
hopeful I'll recover before that.
Anticipating this much time off has meant
many long nights doing my January work
during December, which is why many of you
haven't heard from me much lately. I am
actually looking forward to the surgery just
so I can get some sleep! I ask for your
prayers for a successful surgery and full
and speedy recovery.
The high point of my Christmas celebration
was the children's Christmas Eve Mass which
I attended with my sisters, brother-in-law,
niece and her family. Their three children
were in the procession which made for more
Kodak moments. Sharing Christ's birth with
my family surrounding me was a joyous
experience! I've had great family and
friend times during the Christmas holidays,
getting together with, talking by phone or
corresponding by mail and email with nearly
all the loved ones in my life. 
At the right is Mellow's Christmas photo.
This year she donned a poinsettia head dress
and went on location to English Gardens for
the photo shoot. My sister-in-law Fran took
another outstanding photo this year. My
time with Mellow, now closing in on 15
years, has been precious. Her medication
and accupuncture treatments along with daily
walks and exercises are keeping her moving
and without pain. There are many ups and
downs with an old dog but it is well worth
the time and effort for such a precious one
in my life.
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On this first day of 2011, and each and
every day following, I wish for you God's
most precious gifts of love, peace and
joy.
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Sincerely,
Prayer in Motion, LLC ... Let the Spirit
move you!
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Summer 2010
It's hard to believe that on July 29th I
celebrated the 7 year anniversary of Prayer
in Motion, LLC. Time goes by so
quickly! I have been so blessed to do
this great work. I am eager to share
the rest of the good news from these past
months with you, so read on...
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Episcopal Connections
The
weekend after Easter I was invited to
present a workshop at the Episcopal
Church Women's Annual Meeting at the
Hyatt Regency Hotel. Women attended
from Wisconsin, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio,
Missouri and Michigan. It was a great
opportunity to enlarge my circle, which
may some day lead to taking Prayer in
Motion on the road!
Also
with the Episcopal Church was my
participation in their annual Ministry
Fair in Lansing. Thanks to an initial
introduction by my friend Ann Putallaz,
I have been an invited guest and one of
their most popular sessions since the
beginnings of Prayer in Motion. The
fair draws both employees and volunteers
from the Episcopal churches throughout
Michigan as they seek out new offerings
for their church. Because of contacts
made this year I will be doing a morning
of reflection at St. Martin Episcopal in
Detroit in November.
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Listening to God
Also
after Easter I was blessed to return to the
Heart of Jesus Prayer Center (at St.
Margaret of Scotland in St. Clair Shores) to
hold a retreat day centered on listening to
God. The space was packed with women of all
ages earnestly seeking to hear God's voice
in their lives. Whether they were searching
for guidance to move forward at key points
in their lives or seeking refuge from the
noise of the world, all experienced the
peace that comes from hearing God's loving
voice.
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Summer Retreat Time
I
began the retreat season by taking my
own private directed retreat at the
Capuchin Retreat Center in Washington,
Michigan. It is a lovely retreat center
with 95 acres of woods and fields, lots
of wild life (and mosquitoes!), and
silence. I was blessed with quiet,
peaceful days of rest, renewal, healing
and of course some dancing!
The
day after I returned home, I sat in the
other chair as the director for four
lovely women on retreat at Weber Retreat
Center. Although I have been a
spiritual director for some time, this
was my first experience directing
retreats. I was surprised and blessed
by the amount of healing and joy people
encountered in their retreat as they
took full advantage of a time of silence
with the Lord. All came with burdens
and left feeling lighter. We have
already set a date for next year so mark
your calendars! I will be directing
summer retreats at Weber again July 18 -
22, 2011.
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On a Personal Note ...
 The
beginning of my orthodontic treatment in
mid-April was more difficult than I
anticipated. The initial pain was so great
that I found myself not sleeping or eating
much for a couple of weeks. That led to a
reoccurrence of vertigo which sidelined me
for a while. After meeting with my
orthodontist, Dr. Jim McNamara, my treatment
plan was changed and I had only the lower
brackets put on in early May. Once I
recovered, the upper ones were put on at the
end of June. While eating still presents
some challenges, I am doing quite well now.
I have been surprised though at the
emotional issues that have come from
people's reactions to my appearance, at
times sending me back to my days as a
tentative teenager. But I have been blessed
to know God's accompaniment in this and been
given a much greater appreciation of those
with any differences in their appearance.
 I
have been enjoying the summer with
family and friends. At the end of June
my sister Jan, and of course Mellow,
headed to Hartwell, Georgia to visit our
sister Judy and her husband Jay. We had
great family times and lots of
relaxation lounging around Lake
Hartwell. Tomorrow Jan, Mellow and I
leave for a week on Lake Huron at my
mother-in-law's cottage in Grand Bend,
Canada, where we'll savor the sun and
sand once more. While there is plenty
of work to keep me home, summer is so
short that I am glad to have these
getaway opportunities.
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As we continue in these lovely summer days I
hope you have many opportunities to savor
God's magnificent creation.
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Sincerely,
Prayer in Motion, LLC ... Let the Spirit
move you!
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Spring 2010
Happy Easter and Happy Spring! New life on
all fronts ~ Alleluia! The first quarter of
2010 has been a good one. I am eager to
share the good news with you!
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2010 Begins with a Bang!
I began
the new year with an exciting
inter-generational program based on the Mass
at St. Lucy Parish in St. Clair Shores. The
room was filled with people ranging in age
from 5 to nearly 90! It was amazing to see
each engaged in their own way. There were
so many people that there wasn't enough room
to walk in a circle as I had planned for one
of the songs, so I had to make some quick
changes ~ a great problem to have!
A couple of weeks later I was out at the
Capuchin Retreat Center in Washington, MI
facilitating my portion of the Women and
Mid-Life Conference for nurses. The nurses
programs are always an adventure as there
are a variety of faith traditions, as well
as those potentially not having any
religious belief, in the same room. It's a
wonderful way to evangelize which
continually reminds me that the Holy Spirit
is truly the one at work.
The next week the women's Bible study group
at First Presbyterian in Farmington Hills
invited me to their breakfast meeting to
tell my story and then do a program on
peace. It was a restful, tranquil time for
all.
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A Busy, Yet Peaceful, Lent
Lent began
with the wonderful opportunity to dance once
again in the Ash Wednesday Interfaith Taize'
service at First Presbyterian Church in Ann
Arbor. We danced three lovely dances to the
meditative music, as well as joined in the
singing of many others. This was my 4th
year participating in the service so it
really has become comfortable and deeply
prayerful.
After this peaceful beginning, my schedule
ramped up for several Lenten programs. I did
a lovely Sunday evening of reflection at St.
Cyprian in Riverview around the theme of
returning to God. Despite the fact that it
was scheduled at the same time as the
Olympic hockey playoffs, people kept
arriving so we kept adding chairs.
The next Saturday I facilitated a day
retreat on forgiveness at the Crazy Wisdom
Bookstore's Community Room in Ann Arbor. It
was such a blessing to see God's unbinding
of people from their unforgiveness. Such
release and freedom!
In March there were more Lenten programs,
first at St. Aidan in Livonia where I shared
my testimony followed by prayer experiences
around the theme of continually renewing our
faith, just what we are called to do every
Lent.
Then
I was off to a women's breakfast at Emmanuel
Lutheran in Livonia. Other than having to
get up at 4:00am, it was a wonderful
time! There was quite a poignant moment for
one woman who was 9 months pregnant when we
did a prayer based on Psalm 139 using a song
called "Before I was Born." I also watched a
woman who appeared quite depressed begin to
come alive during one of the prayer
experiences. Often I don't know what happens
with people, but it surely appeared that she
was touched deeply by God. My Lenten
programs culminated this year at a lovely
little church in Dearborn Heights, Christus
Victor Lutheran, on Palm Sunday. It was a
great time of celebrating Jesus and
preparing for the Holy Week ahead.
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On a Personal Note ...
 This
first quarter of the year has been filled
with many doctor and dental appointments as
I evaluate my options for correcting a bite
problem. At present only two teeth on each
side of my mouth make contact which makes it
increasingly more difficult to eat. After
much research, thought and prayer, I have
decided to pursue orthodontic treatment as
well as jaw surgery. It is likely that I
will wear braces for two years with the jaw
surgery taking place somewhere in the
middle. Since I will be out of commission
for a while I am hoping to schedule the
surgery during the Christmas holidays. More
to follow on that. I would appreciate your
prayers for the medical professionals
involved, as well as myself, as we begin
this extensive treatment. I understand it's
a great weight loss opportunity!
 On
a more enjoyable note, Mellow, my chocolate
lab, turned 14 last month. After a difficult
winter she has made an amazing comeback and
is truly loving life again. She is back to
aging gracefully, thrilled with her new
non-vegetarian diet and enthralled with the
sights and smells of spring. She continually
teaches me the joy of the present moment and
unconditional love.
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As we continue in these Easter days I hope
you have much joy, love and new life.
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Sincerely,
Prayer in Motion, LLC ... Let the Spirit
move you!
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Winter 2010
I am
excited to send you my new Prayer in Motion
Newsletter! This has been my focus for the
last several weeks, getting familiar with
the software and transferring my contact
information into this new system. Once
fully implemented it will enable me to send
all my email communications in a more
efficient, effective and professional way.
Since I haven't written since July, I have a
few months to catch you up on.
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August 2009 Happenings
I had my
busiest August ever with 4 really different
programs. I began with presenting at a
Faith and Sharing retreat in Detroit. Much
to my surprise attendees included a deaf
woman, a blind woman and several severely
physically and cognitively impaired
participants. It was challenging to keep
the deaf woman in sight so she could copy
the movements while verbally explaining all
the movements to the blind woman. Amidst
this intense focus I looked over at a tiny
woman with cerebral palsy bent over her
wheelchair, only able to move one hand. As
I watched her, she struggled to keep her
head somewhat upright, while slightly moving
her hand to the music, all the while glowing
with the brightest smile I have ever seen.
Truly the Holy Spirit was at work in her!
It is a sight I will never forget and likely
the most memorable moment of 2009!
The next
day I headed for a youth camp in Oxford
being sponsored by the REJ Foundation, a
non-profit organization dedicated to helping
youth whose parents are in prison. I was
asked to be the kick off for the camp
experience ... before the group had bonded
and before the ground rules had been
implemented. With youth ranging in age from
6 to 17 it was likely the hardest I've ever
worked! But gradually the group began to
come together, with the angry teenagers who
felt somehow deceived at being sent to camp
actually helping the little ones determine
their left from their right. Bless God!
Other
August programs included a seniors group in
Lansing, which once again included a deaf
woman and the same blind woman from the
retreat earlier in August who couldn't seem
to get enough of movement prayer. I was
also blessed to give a retreat at my sister
and her husband's church in Georgia. It was
a special experience to tell my story and
pray with family members and so many who
were dear to them. One participant called
me later in the fall for some coaching on
starting a similar ministry at her church in
South Carolina. Slowly but surely Prayer in
Motion is spreading through the country!
After all this activity I was glad to
vacation at my sister and brother-in-law's
lovely lake home in Georgia.
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September - November 2009 Adventures
September
brought me a new directee to companion
through the Spiritual Exercises of St.
Ignatius, this time on my own, having
completed the training with my mentor Jean
last May. It continues to be an awesome
experience of watching God at work.
Additionally I met with 12 other directees
for regular spiritual direction and
supervised 2 commissioned spiritual
directors, as well as one intern who was
still in training. My one-on-one work is
very precious to me as I get to journey with
people through their intimate process of
healing.
October
was another busy month, beginning with a
retreat for St. Clare Episcopal Church held
at a YMCA camp in the Irish Hills. Located
on 1,200 acres, the hardest part was finding
the building they were in! My GPS blew a
fuse and I was driving through muddy, rutted
roads in the pouring rain, identifying
landmarks I passed by over the phone to the
person coordinating the retreat as he talked
me in. With little time to spare when I
finally arrived and a blazing inferno in the
fireplace directly behind where they asked
me to stand, I found myself sweating
profusely and praying fervently for help!
The Spirit's calm did take over and an
amazingly spiritual experience resulted for
all those in attendance. Another highlight
for October was a return to St. Joseph
Shrine in the Irish Hills to present at
their women's retreat. It was like coming
home, such a lovely, welcoming group they
were. Also in October I was asked to
present to the class of spiritual direction
interns at the Dominican Center as well as a
large group of catechists in the Downriver
Vicariate of the Archdiocese of Detroit.
November
brought a beautiful retreat on "Hope" at
Weber Center. While attendance was not
large, it was a very moving, uplifting
experience and an opportunity to prepare
many new songs. It is amazing how many
songs have been written about hope lately,
clearly something many are struggling with
these days. Another highlight was an Advent
Tea at Cana Lutheran on the first Sunday of
Advent. It was a lovely evening that has
resulted in an upcoming breakfast program
for another church. I love how that works!
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December 2009 Joy
In
December I held an Advent retreat day at St.
Paul of the Cross Retreat Center which
included a husband, wife and daughter as
well as a mother-in-law and her
daughter-in-law which made for some precious
family interactions. As God usually works,
it helped me to find my own focus in the
Christmas season that had gotten
scattered. I also had the great joy to
work with the angels again in the St.
Francis Living Nativity Procession. It is a
precious yet busy time of choreographing
dances for 5-6 year old and 7-10 year old
angels complete with halos and wings. Each
year something unexpected happens (like last
year when the live donkey was standing in
the middle of the aisle they were to dance
down!). This year the stairs where they
were to complete their dance were occupied
by several dozen shepherds that had to be
quickly moved over just as the angels
arrived. But Christ was born, alleluia!
Following
the completion of my December programs I got
my usual December illness. This year it took
the form of a cold/perhaps flu which lasted
3 weeks. Because of the congestion, my
vertigo returned and I struggled with
dizziness and some difficulty hearing again
for about 6 weeks until I could get in to
see the ENT doctor. Add to this nearly 2
weeks of intestinal difficulties and you can
see why my newsletter is later than usual
this year!
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The New Year ahead holds much promise and
opportunity and I am grateful to share it
with you.
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Sincerely,
Prayer in Motion, LLC ... Let the Spirit
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Janene |
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